War - an act of violence whose object is to constrain the enemy, to accomplish our will. — George Washington. Founding Father, U.S. president from 1789 to 1797 War & Peace
Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.