Your parents, they give you your life, but then they try to give you their life. — Chuck Palahniuk. American novelist (born 1962) Parents
A minute of perfection was worth the effort. A moment was the most you could ever expect from perfection.
People don't want their lives fixed. Nobody wants their problems solved. Their dramas. Their distractions. Their stories resolved. Their messes cleaned up. Because what would they have left? Just the big scary unknown.