There is nothing as strong as tenderness, And nothing as tender as true strength. — Saint Francis de Sales. Bishop of Geneva and Catholic saint (1567–1622)
If we say a little it is easy to add, but having said too much it is hard to withdraw and never can it be done so quickly as to hinder the harm of our success.
When you encounter difficulties and contradictions, do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.
Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them - every day begin the task anew.