There is no national problem in the world today, which cannot be resolved by reason alone. — L. Ron Hubbard. American writer and Scientology founder (1911–1986)
You want to raise your child in such a way that you don%uFFFDt have to control him, so that he will be in full possession of himself at all times. Upon that depends his good behavior, his health, his sanity.
The only time anyone has ever gotten into serious trouble was when he decided he could do nothing about something.