The best way to learn to be an honest, responsible adult is to live with adults who act honestly and responsibly.
It is the caring and sharing that count—love is not prevented by the things and the time that you haven’t shared.
One of the common causes of serious difficulty takes the form of parental self-discovery. The newly adopted child brings out submerged feelings or behavior in his parents that make them dislike themselves. This can be such a severe blow to their self- esteem that they must eradicate the cause of their distress. Sometimes the only way that parents are able to do that is by returning the child.